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Celebrating achieving what I got told to be impossible.
24 YRS AGO... Celebrating achieving what I got told to be impossible. Have you ever had a situation where you did something that was...
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7 lugTempo di lettura: 2 min


When Knowing Isn’t Enough
“Press the clutch, shift to first, look in the mirror, release slowly…”“I understood,” he says confidently. Then comes his turn. He sits behind the wheel, hands on the steering wheel, foot hovering over the pedal… and nothing. All the steps he knew a minute ago vanish. Laughing about this is a powerful tool. It helps us putting us in the right state... Were we use a different quality of emotional state to learn faster, and better, as we pay a different quality of attention.
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29 ottTempo di lettura: 1 min


The Pop That Changed Everything
One step at a time. A little bit better than before. Keep going. Ten years ago, I was working as the head trainer and artistic director for Zig Zag Circus, while also running the circus program at Seacliff Primary School — where we’d just finished installing my beloved Chinese pole. Then, in one glorious display of “wrong arm, wrong time,” I ruptured my distal bicep tendon while spotting a gymnast. There was a loud rip — imagine someone tearing a bedsheet right next to your
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27 ottTempo di lettura: 1 min


Invisible Chains: The Blocks You Don’t Even See
Sometimes it’s not fear.Sometimes it’s not lack of knowledge. Yet, you feel stuck. Ready to act. Motivated. But still, nothing changes. The reason? Invisible chains. Patterns, beliefs, and emotional habits that quietly control your decisions, your energy, your focus. I used to blame myself for “not trying hard enough.” I planned more. Pushed harder. Overthought.Nothing worked… until I realized I was fighting the wrong battle. Once I learned to notice the invisible chains — to
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22 ottTempo di lettura: 1 min


The Illusion of Sameness: What The Giver Still Teaches Us About Awareness and Change
After reading the book, I watched the movie. In The Giver by Lois Lowry, an entire society sacrifices difference in the name of peace. They call it sameness — a world without envy, greed, anger, or hatred. No pain. No conflict. No choice. On the surface, it sounds like paradise. But in exchange for safety, they gave up freedom. In exchange for control, they lost colour, music, and emotion. And with that, they lost their humanity. The story reveals something we all feel, dee
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20 ottTempo di lettura: 1 min


They don’t silence you anymore. They teach you what to think
“The basic tool for the manipulation of reality is the manipulation of words.If you can control the meaning of words, you can control the people who must use the words.”— Philip K. Dick Today, they don’t need censorship.They’ve mastered something much smarter: emotional control through moral language. They whisper, “We must protect the weak, defend the oppressed.” And of course, we agree — because empathy is human. But slowly, the words shift. The meanings tighten. You’re not
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17 ottTempo di lettura: 1 min


It’s Your Quality That Changes Everything
People chase more. More hours, more effort, more “stuff.” But the truth? It’s not how much you do. It’s the quality of who you are that...
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10 ottTempo di lettura: 1 min


The Imposter Trap: Why Your Doubt is Costing More Than You Think
More than 40 degrees of thermal excursion from outside to inside. (from -25 to +20 Celsius) Surrounded by some of the most talented...
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What’s the ROI of our Licensed Practitioner of NLP in Bali?
Not long ago, someone asked me: “What’s the ROI of participating in your Bali NLP Bootcamp?” Fair question. People want to know: if I...
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22 setTempo di lettura: 2 min


Letting Go: The Step Toward Freedom
After every battle, every sleepless night, every challenge you’ve fought… the thing most likely to derail you isn’t the hardship itself....
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21 setTempo di lettura: 1 min


Prisoners of Our Own Reality
We are prisoners of our own personal reality like never before. This isn’t philosophy. It’s not some late-night “what if” conversation....
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12 setTempo di lettura: 2 min


Post 4 — “Eventually, we'll die”
So... how do you want to live/leave!? Whatever your beliefs about life… We’re born with nothing . We die with nothing . And yet we spend...
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7 setTempo di lettura: 1 min


Post 3 — “The Tango Lesson”
I used to love dancing Argentine tango . The roles are clear . The man leads and holds protective space so the woman can shine. The...
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5 setTempo di lettura: 1 min


Post 2 — “Kings, Queens & Peasants”
A friend once told me: “A foolish woman treats her man like a slave — and becomes the slave’s wife. A wise woman treats her man like a...
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Post 1 — “WHO is Winning”
Did you notice how much social media pushes us to pick a side? Men vs. Women. Left vs. Right. Victim vs. Villain. Modern roles vs...
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31 agoTempo di lettura: 1 min


I once taught martial arts inside a juvenile prison in Torino. 🥋
You know, when I was a teenager back in Torino, I had this wild opportunity… I got invited to teach martial arts at the local juvenile...
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24 agoTempo di lettura: 2 min


Post 0 — “Who Shook the Jar?” 🐜🔥
Put black ants and red ants in the same jar. They’ll live together peacefully. But if you shake the jar… …they start killing each other....
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22 agoTempo di lettura: 1 min


The Genie Inside: How Learning to Shift My Frequency Changed My Life
Once upon a time… not in a desert, not under a starlit sky, but right here in the middle of my everyday life… I found a genie. 🪔 Not the...
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18 agoTempo di lettura: 2 min


Post 10 — Bali is calling. Will you answer?
This is it. You’ve read the words. Felt the pull. Imagined what it would be like. Now it’s time. You don’t need permission. You need to...
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15 agoTempo di lettura: 1 min


Post 9 — She came back different.
Talent is a pursued interest. Anything that you're willing to practice you can do (Bob Ross) I add: even better with the right training!...
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15 agoTempo di lettura: 1 min
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